Dearest Grampy

I've been trying to find the words to write about my dad. Every time I try I just can't seem to get further than a few sentences. I've decided today is the day and I am going to post whatever I can manage to get down and hope it does justice to the wonderful man that he was.

After a short battle with cancer, he died on January 11th. Dad was diagnosed just after Christmas and was only in the hospital for 2 weeks. He was so strong and positive about everything and he was so grateful for the good care that he received. I don't know how he found the strength to be so amazing as he was poked and prodded and on the receiving end of bad news on so many days. But he was and I was so incredibly proud of him for that.

I wish I could have been there while he was in hospital, to help take care of him. I would have been there if any of us had known that he would be taken so quickly. I am forever grateful to my brothers who were on the front lines of everything from receiving devastating news to taking care of any need Dad had to taking all the phone calls from concerned friends and family and making the final arrangements. And of course for being there now with Mom.

It still does not seem real and we are so heartbroken to have lost him at such a young age. He was only 60.

Violet's grampy is gone but will never be forgotten. The short time that Violet and grampy had together had a lasting impact and I truly hope we can help her remember him. He died exactly 2 years after Violet was born and now Grampy and Violet have a special date to share when we can celebrate both of them each year.

If you didn't know my dad you truly missed out. He was a special person who spent his life giving of himself to other people and because of that he had many, many friends. He was king of the pranks, he loved his family so much and was incredibly proud of his 3 grandchildren, he was my mom's love and friend for more than 35 years and he was a kid at heart.

Violet, Jon and I spent about a week in PEI with my family and have some wonderful memories of the time we all had together even though saying goodbye to my dad was one of the hardest things I have ever done. I know he is looking out for us now and he would have been amazed and proud to see the incredible turnout of 1300 people at his wake. He would have laughed and been delighted at seeing 3 of his pallbearers wearing their RCMP red serge and at the police escort for his funeral procession that stopped traffic.

There is so much more to say and I eventually hope to find the words to say it. We all miss you so much Dad.

Christmas 2008

Dinner with our friends


My gift to Daddy

Daddy got Rock Band!



Still catching up! Christmas seems like a long time ago but we still haven't posted any pics. Violet (and the rest of us) were very spoiled by our friends and family - thank you everyone!

Violet really 'got' christmas this year. When we talked about Santa and how he brings presents to good girls and boys she would point to herself and say "I too?!" We had a lot of fun decorating the tree, lots of Christmas music for Violet and Jon to dance to while mommy put the decorations on the tree - somehow Violet ended up being naked by the time we were ready for her to put the angel on the tree.

Violet had so many gifts to open that we had to stop and take a break for some breakfast - seems to be a tradition at our house :) We usually go for a christmas walk but our attempt at a walk didn't seem to fit with Violet's plans, even though we took her out in her new red wagon from santa! We had a wonderful dinner with our friends Elise, Travis, TJ and Taite - a rowdy and fun day it was!

It was our first white christmas in Victoria - turns out Violet loves the snow (especially to eat) but not the cold so much. Jon had a LOT of shoveling to do as he was helping out 3 neighbours and doing our driveway, walkway and sidewalk as well. All is green again and we are happy about that!

Catching up

Happy New Year! Anyone out there? Its been so long since we last posted any photos and updates I'm sure most of you have given up on us! :) Here are some pics from the last couple of months - another post to follow with some movies and xmas shots.

Violet and Mommy had a great visit to PEI at the beginning of December - she loved spending time with her family and REALLY hated all the extra attention! I have managed to lose all my photos and videos from the trip :( I am so disappointed but I have managed to steal a view pics from baby Haylee's blog - thanks LESA!

Violet got to experience her first snow in PEI and fell in love with Missy (my parent's shitzu) all over again. She also had loads of 'girly' fun with her cousin Jaiden who just turned 3 on Jan 1st and still asks where is baby Haylee on most days. We had a mostly relaxing visit and Violet proved she was a really great traveller...mostly.




We are thinking of you Dad!